THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED

      Before getting married, you tend to worry about many issues.  You don’t know what the responsibilities are when transitioning from a single to married life: the obstacles that you might face, once you transition into the married family life you will be acquiring more responsibilities that you never had when you were living a single life.

         
      All your thoughts and problems will affect your family.  Everyone knows that having a family is hard work because there are a lot of responsibilities.  But knowing how to create a happy and fulfilling family is a thousand times harder.  That is why before you get married, you have to be able to understand and answer the following questions.

      Health Conditions

      Health is always considered the most important conditions of human beings.  If you are healthy, you are able to produce a happy and healthy family.

      According to many doctors and specialists, when the male or female isn’t mature biologically and they decide to create a family, there will many problems that will arise in the future.

      The mature phase of a male is usually above twenty, the female is usually above 18 years of age. As proof from the biological aspect, females eighteen years and above and males twenty years and above are able to healthy .  At this age they are complete and ready to create a family. 

         
      But the best age to get married at is when a male is twenty four years old and the female is twenty years.  When they are not mature enough, making a family and having a child is not good.  

         In addition, early marriage has negative effects such as:

      - When you lack experience in life and get married, it will make the marriage and their relationships difficult.

      - If you don’t put enough consideration into the partner you’re married and don’t wholly understand each other on the psychological level, it will be easy to hurt them.

      -  Lack of experience in raising children

      These questions need answers

      The following questions are the practical question that men and women need to think before making this serious choice in your life:

         1.  Why do you want to get married?

         2.  Are you getting married because of you want to do so or are forced?

         3.  What can of person do you want your spouse to be like?

       
         4.  What do you want your life to be like after marriage?

        5.  What can you do to protect your partner from future problems?

        6.  What are your future life plans after marriage?

       
        7. Are you satisfied with the person you’re marrying?

  

        8.  Would you be happy if you lost them out of your life?

      
        9.  Do you feel like the luckiest person marrying to this person?

      
       10.  After you marry them do you feel like you still want to treat them the same way you treated them before in the relationship?

      
       11.  Are you willing to withstand with your partner through all the problems no matter how dire they might be that might arise in the future?

       12.  What would you want your family life to be like?

     
       13.  Do you ever think about problems that might come up in the future and figure out ways to solve them?

      
       14.  Do you feel confident that you will successfully solve all the future problems that might come up?

      
       15.  In the situation that you live with your spouse, do you see any values of theirs that you don’t align with?

      
       16.  Do you ever wonder why you want children and how you want your children to be like?

      
       17.  Are you willing to make sacrifices for your family?

      
       18.  Do you ever wonder how you should treat your spouse’s family (your in-laws)?

      
       19.  How will you treat your spouse when they do something that angers you?

      
       20. If your family lacks in a certain aspect (financially, physically, emotionally) how will you deal with it?

       
       21.  If your spouse has a temper or has a lot of flaws, how will you deal with it?

       
       22.  How would you define a happy family?

       
       23.  Do you have complete confidence that you’re able to handle taking care of your family in the future?

       The aforementioned questions are just a general scheme to help you find the best plan for a happy family.

         If you aren’t able to answer a lot of the aforementioned questions, it means that you shouldn’t get married or that you aren’t ready to get married.