THE MAN'S FEAR OF REJECTION
By Margaret Kent
Men have little courage when it comes to approaching the women they truly want. A man will much more readily approach a woman he finds slightly attractive than one he is enthralled by; he has less to lose if the former rejects him. That's why those ordinary woman are married and Wonderful You is single and day-dreaming.
Men may be courageous on the battlefield and ambitious in business, but they fear female rejection. Yes, they maybe avoiding you because they fear you'll reject them.
In your teenager years, if you were at a school event and no boy ask you to dance, you may have felt overlooked. But think of the boy with the sensitive ego who had to ask the girl to dance with hundreds of people watching. If the girl refused his invitation, he wasn't just overlooked. He was rejected. The rejection was no doubt devastating to him because it felt like public humiliation.
What did that young boy do to avoid the embarrassment of rejection? He approached only those girls who looked friendly and who were happy to return his glances. they approach women whom they believe won't reject them.










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