5 Common First Date Mistakes You Should Avoid …
Even very attractive women can struggle to get dates. The reason often has to do with mistakes in the initial stages of
meeting guy
for the first time. We humans are social creatures; whether male of
female, in the first ten minutes of conversation we do a lot of sizing
up. In fact, it is likely that within the first 10 minutes of
conversation we will have had all the required
First Date …”
1. Trying too hard to be sexy/ too forward/ too predatory
Contrary to what some girls think, overtly attempting to flirt and
make provocative sexy advances too early on is a big turn off. Put
plainly, it freaks a guy out, and whether true or not, be sure he will
make all kinds of assumptions about how promiscuous a girl is based on
this behaviour. You can also be sure that he’ll assume you act this way
for every guy. Also, Shock! Horror! A man may ACTUALLY wants to get to
know a bit about you as a person.
2. Laughing all the time – No-one is that funny
The end–result of this kind of behaviour for the guy is stale
conversation and a lack of challenge. If a guy feels like you’ll clap
and dance at anything he says, he will get bored. It is better to tease
him slightly when he’s not funny; he’ll respect you more for not being
so easily entertained.
3. Drinking too much
Quite simple. Women don’t like drunk men; women about to keel over
with alcohol are just as repellent to the male species. There is no
greater mood killer for a man than when a girl he has just been
kissing turns and seductively whispers in his ear “I am sooo drunk right now”.
4. Trying to appear to strong and not letting their vulnerable side show
This is a tricky one for many women to get right, especially those
who enjoy being very independent. Here’s the thing, self-sufficient
strong
women are sexy,
but men want to know there is a sweet girl with feelings in there
somewhere. If a guy gets the feeling you’re an ice queen incapable of
romance, he may look elsewhere for a woman more likely to cuddle up with
him when the weather turns cold.
5. Giggling and whispering with girl mates
Ironically, when it comes to getting male
attraction,
your best friends can be your worst enemies. Turning around every
minute to whisper conspiratorially with your girlfriends may drive him
crazy, but NOT in the way you might be hoping! It makes a man feel like
you don’t respect him enough to include him or pay attention to what he
has to say.
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