6 Signs Your Date Is Interviewing You for Marriage

 

1/ He asks you where you see yourself in 5, 10, and 20 years

….before bothering to ask about where you’re from or what your hobbies are. If he starts firing away suggestions like a career counselor and pulling up recent salary reports on his iPad, start scanning the room for the nearest exit.

2. By the end of the date, you feel like you know very little about her
 

But you know a ton about her friends who are married, engaged, engaged to be engaged, or going through reproductive challenges.

3. He focuses more on the the past and future, not the present
 

He has no idea what you do for a living, but you feel like you came out of a Freudian-style therapy session by the end of dinner and a movie. Ruh-roh: your date may be gauging whether your baggage and goals are compatible with his. But hey, awesome breakthrough about your mother.

4. She asks about your parents’ marriage during the first round of drinks
 

Extra points if she has you dissecting the real reasons behind their divorce by the end of the night.

5. He asks about the status of your debt and student loans
 

He’s either trying to figure out how responsible you are or he’s asking because he wants to be your sugar daddy and pay ‘em off for you. Fingers crossed! (Though if he starts having you fill out life insurance forms, run and make sure all of your major organs are still inside your body.)

6. She grills you about the length of all of your past relationships
 

It’s one thing to briefly ask how long your last relationship. It’s another to ask you to work your way back to your summer camp girlfriend in 4th grade. And then to ask you, “So what went wrong? Why couldn’t you commit?”

--Written by Diana Vilibert